About Me
I am a warm, affectionate, loving, down-to-earth mother of three wonderful children - one of them being the proverbial 'laat lammetjie' who enjoys bantering. My wit has been compared to a Savanah - its dry ... but believe me if you catch we will have endless fun together! At time I like to be serious and philosophise about all things like the meaning of life and other times I can be a real clown! Yes, I admit I suffer from PMS, but will not bite your head off, I might just have a nibble!I am not pretentious and would describe myself as WYSIWYG (What you see is what you get). I am not scared to call a spade a spade and I dont beat around the bush. Sometimes this blatant honesty is to my own detriment!
I'm Looking For
I am looking for someone that will let me be me and will give as much as receive! I would love to find someone who will respect me equally and who will accept my children without condition! It would be great to meet someone who is comfortable in their own skin and who has nothing left to prove as they have achieved success in their own right. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I dont need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. Romantically, a man who is striving for perfection financially because I dont need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who respects me and who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I have no problem being submissive... he just has to be worthy. God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I cant help a man if he cant help himself. Yes I might be "asking a lot" but "Im worth a lot."
My Interests
Reading, writing, painting, outdoors, playing pool, relaxing in front of a DVD, listening to music
Music
I have diverse music taste, from James Blunt to Hinder and anything in between. Big no-no is Jazz, Blues, Rap and Bubblegum Pop music ...
Movies
Movies like "Pay it forward" leave lasting impressions. However I can also enjoy a movie like Spiderman and 300.
Television
Jozi H is on my to watch list and so is Strong Medicine. I am a hospital drama junkie as well as a CSI type junkie.
Books
Anything from James Patterson, to Robin Cook to Peter James to Dean Koontz - please leave the romance at the door
Heroes
I would say Madiba but that would be cliche .... I really don't have any heroes!!
Skills
To many to mention ... ask me about them!
Goals
To feel that I have achieved something. At 36 I am still chasing that goal!
Ideal job
A job where I can help people would be the ideal ... like a social worker or a doula
