Virtual Sex

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By jbravo (Contact - View My Woyano)
Published Thu 12 Jul 2007, 525 Views, 15 Comments

 I thought that might get your attention!  Another topic discussed by Kurzweil is the nature of relationships and sex in the future.   Not the discussion with the most scientific value -- but certainly one that would appeal to a wide audience.

Ultimately, we will have ways to immerse ourselves in virtual reality that seem very real indeed.  We aren't even close today -- but it will happen.  At first, in order to perceive touch, we will have to be inside of some tactile chamber with a medium capable of stimulating these sensations.  Eventually, we'll be able to directly interface with the brain.

OK, the science aside, what does this mean for our relationships (sexual and otherwise)?  You could use such a system to:

- Have virtual sex with a complete stranger.

- Have virtual sex with a virtual partner.

- Have virtual sex with another person -- but make them appear to be whomever you wanted.

- Have virtual sex with your regular partner as a form of safe sex.

As I said before -- when our technology evolves, we will not try to eliminate our most basic needs and desires.  Rather, we will find more creative and safe ways to feed them!

Here's another question -- would you let your partner have virtual sex with someone else?  What if it was just a virtual partner?


   
   


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    Tequila Rose ~ 14 months ago
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    The movie Demolition Man is a good example of how this is acted out :)
    They also predicted that Schwartzenegger would be Governor of California- I think its the nostradamus of its time hehehe
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      clemmati ~ 14 months ago
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      Oh yes Demolition Man! I just could not remember the title, I remembered something about Arnie but thought maybe he was the star!
      I really liked that movie.
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        Dr. Fallon ~ 14 months ago
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        Okay. I know I'm showing my age, here, and I guess there's even a (not-too-subtle) value judgment in my question, but...
        why would you even want to have "virtual" (as opposed to actual) sex?
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          Loves Bloc Party ~ 14 months ago
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          theres nothing better than the real thing baby *S*

          :)
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            jbravo ~ 14 months ago
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            I won't argue with that. But, what if the virtual variety were indistinguishable from the real thing?
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              Dr. Fallon ~ 14 months ago
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              (~~channeling Marvin and Tammi~~)

              ...ain't nothing like the real thing, baby, ain't nothing like the real thing...
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          jbravo ~ 14 months ago
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          Hmmm. I'll see if I can anwer that without getting in trouble at work. :-)

          First of all, everyone has different values and different desires, etc. so we'll never all agree on this -- but that's part of the fun here.

          You can refer back to my original list above, #4 as a starting point. The "safety" factor definitely makes it attractive. And not just physical safety, but also emotional safety. While the thought of doing this is foreign to a lot of people today, like a lot of things, it will seem less strange to those in the future who experience it.

          Why not just do it in real life. OK -- fair question. I suppose I could ask the same thing about why people post here and have virtual conversations. Why not just have real conversations with real people face-to-face? Perhaps some of the answers to that question also apply to the other.

          Finally, I'm willing to bet that most people -- even with strict values -- have had fantasies and have thought about them while, er, fullfilling their own needs so to speak. Does that qualify as real or virtual?


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            Dr. Fallon ~ 14 months ago
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            Certainly, you're not making an analogy between conversation and sex? Isn't there more than superficial difference between them?
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              jbravo ~ 14 months ago
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              Obviously, they aren't the same thing -- but I don't think they need to be the same to make an analogy. I think there is enough in common to make my point. In both cases, when the experience is meaningful, you are taking a risk by making yourself vulnerable.
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                Dr. Fallon ~ 14 months ago
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                But while Woyano -- and other "social networking sites" -- may yield highly satisfying and meaningful conversations and relationships, it certainly doesn't have to. One can hop in and out of Woyano quite casually. Is this the analogy to sex you're relying on?
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                  jbravo ~ 14 months ago
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                  Damn. You're backing me into a corner now. Why don't you just exclaim "checkmate." heh, heh. Let's see if I can wiggle my way out of this one...

                  The point is, in both situations in the analogy, you have the opportunity to make yourself vulnerable. In a virtual experience, there is an extra level of safety that allows you to open up and experience more without really making yourself truly vulnerable.

                  I'm guessing that you're thinking that this cheapens the experience. Perhaps it does. Or just maybe, it serves a useful purpose -- that is, it can prepare us for truly meaningful relationships -- allowing us to grow into it with more gradual steps.

                  As the virtual experience becomes ever more like the real thing, I think this distinction may become increasingly fuzzy.
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            Tequila Rose ~ 14 months ago
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            Emotional safety? I wouldn't go THAT far yet- ;)
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              sunshineinoz ~ 14 months ago
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              I think blokes who use crap pick-up lines at nightclubs should workshop them virtually....
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                sunshineinoz ~ 14 months ago
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                Hang on a minute..I'm married..I have virtual sex all the time...isn't that when you pull into the car park at the shopping mall and slam the car door and tell your husband 'f*ck you too!'.....
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                  Tequila Rose ~ 14 months ago
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                  hehehehe... see..no emotional safety at all!
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                    This is my two cents...

                       
                    Hey you know AdGuy always gets the last word! ;)

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