Husbands Buying their Own Clothes - Bless

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By japaneseboats (Contact - View My Woyano)
Published Tue 17 Jul 2007, 285 Views, 8 Comments

A couple of weeks ago I happened to be in M & S ( Marks and Spencer - popular good quality clothing store for the English middle-aged, middle-class), and spied a special offer on men's cotton polo shirts. Three for the price of two! An offer previously unknown at M&S in the foodhall, let alone on clothing.  In thrall to such an unbelievable bargain, (now no more according to the website) I spent about twenty minutes carefully looking through the display to find three shirts of the correct size for Husband, and importantly, of appropriate colour ways  to suit summer excursions and lifestyle for both in England and France. ( I take these things seriously...) So, £30 paid happily into the M&S coffers. Three fab shirts for £10 each. Result! Shareholders you can also celebrate. Well, anyway - Husband was delighted with my choice and has worn one shirt of a particularly flattering shade of sky blue off and on almost ever since.

So far, so good, so normal, (in my domestic life).

Then last Saturday we were out shopping together (aaah) in the town centre,  and we passed a charity stall  piled high with paperback books  - ooh our favourite! Stopping a while to browse the titles, I suddenly realised Husband had moved to look through the rack of donated clothes. As I deal in vintage fashion and textiles, I thought he had spotted a designer label among the droopy items hanging on the rail.  Seeing me approach, he held up a stripey polo shirt. "It's my size!" he whispered triumphally. Er, yes it was indubitably his size ( tall and handsome), and furthermore rather nice stripey colours.  Quite classic - very French, sipping wine in a harbour bar style  etc.  So he bought it. 50p, thank you very much.

Is it time to let him do his own clothes shopping?


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    Big Al ~ 17 months ago
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    Tall and handsome eh? I can relate to that. :D
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      Loves Bloc Party ~ 17 months ago
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      *S*
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        snak ~ 17 months ago
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        I'm starting to get the idea. I have traditionally been rubbish at buying clothes for myself. I'd think - "That's a nice shirt (or top or trews or whatever)", and buy it without thinking about what I already had that it would go with. I have an 'individual' taste, I suppose, and things that look good in the shop can turn into clown outfits in daylight. I also tended to think 'I need a shirt' so I'd waltz into the first shop I saw selling shirts and buy one - this made life quicker because I'd only spend 10 minutes shopping - a time-bargain in my book. This is disasterous. I once got into serious trouble buying 3 shirts from the first shop I walked into. I spent £75 ($150) on 3 shirts (and this was about 20 years ago - that was real money then). My ex-wife went ape-shit.

        So I learned the cardinal rule - clothes shopping? Take a woman! Let her decide as she'll have a far better idea than me on what fits, how it looks, how it goes with other stuff and whether it is extortionately priced or not.

        My most recent ex (that sounds bad doesn't it?) taught me to do these things. I can now go into a shop and buy something that fits all the required criteria - providing of course, that it's a black shirt. I'm still working on the rest. :o)
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          vadagh ~ 17 months ago
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          I can relate, my clothing is nearly all of dark colours(or camo gear). Except for bermuda shorts and a few T-shirts. I took an ex shopping once a it drove me nuts traipsing around , I find it easier to just wear what I know I can get away with.
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            georgie ~ 17 months ago
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            Such a deal :)
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              Mark ~ 17 months ago
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              did they have any more of them polo shirts?
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                earsz ~ 17 months ago
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                I can't begin to imagine someone else routinely buying my clothes. On most of the rare occasions when others have done so as a gift, their taste has been quite at odds with mine.

                Do many wives routinely buy clothes for their husbands? Do many husbands routinely expect their wives to buy their clothes? Me, not only would my wife never have allowed such an expectation, I'd never have allowed her to do it in the first place. uhhhh, maybe "allowed" is an un-PC term, but anyway ...
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                  japaneseboats ~ 17 months ago
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                  Mmmn. Sort of trick question,isn't it? I wld never "routinely" buy clothes for my husband or anyone else. Guess we are both products of the 1960/70s interest in clothes/fashion. So not difficult for me to buy stuff that suits him if I see a passing bargain. But usually we go shopping together. Especially in France - he will pick out a shirt etc for himself as I am trying on clothes. I suspect it is the beauty and charm of the female sales assistant that guides him, but he has never been let down, so far...
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                  This is my two cents...

                     
                  Hey you know AdGuy always gets the last word! ;)

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